9 And they must have a clear conscience and hold firmly to what God has shown us about our faith.
10 They must first prove themselves. Then if no one has anything against them, they can serve as officers.
11 Women must also be serious. They must not gossip or be heavy drinkers, and they must be faithful in everything they do.
12 Church officers must be faithful in marriage. They must be in full control of their children and everyone else in their home.
13 Those who serve well as officers will earn a good reputation and will be highly respected for their faith in Christ Jesus.
14 I hope to visit you soon. But I am writing these instructions,
15 so that if I am delayed, you will know how everyone who belongs to God's family ought to behave. After all, the church of the living God is the strong foundation of truth.