17 Yes, kind words are more effective than the best of gifts, and if you are really concerned, you will give both.
18 It is stupid to be unkind and insulting. No one's eyes are going to sparkle at a gift that you resent giving.
19 Know what you are talking about before you speak, and give attention to your health before you get ill.
20 Examine your conscience before the Lord judges you; then when that time comes, he will forgive you.
21 Humble yourself before you are punished with sickness. When you have sinned, show repentance.
22 If you make a promise to the Lord, keep it as soon as you can. Don't wait until you are about to die to set things straight.
23 But before you make such a promise, be prepared to keep it. Don't try to test the Lord's patience.