1-2 I have heard words like that before;the comfort you give is only torment.
3 Are you going to keep on talking forever?Do you always have to have the last word?
4 If you were in my place and I in yours,I could say everything you are saying.I could shake my head wiselyand drown you with a flood of words.
5 I could strengthen you with adviceand keep talking to comfort you.