7 An elder must also have the respect of people who are not part of the church. Then he will not be criticized by others and be caught in the devil’s trap.
8 In the same way, the men who are chosen to be special servants must have the respect of others. They must not be men who say things they don’t mean or who spend their time drinking too much. They must not be men who will do almost anything for money.
9 They must follow the true faith that God has now made known to us and always do what they know is right.
10 You should test them first. Then, if you find that they have done nothing wrong, they can be special servants.
11 In the same way, the women must have the respect of others. They must not be women who speak evil about other people. They must have self-control and be women who can be trusted in everything.
12 The men who are special servants must be faithful in marriage. They must be good leaders of children and their own families.
13 Those who do well as special servants are making an honorable place for themselves. And they will feel very sure of their faith in Christ Jesus.