5 (If a man does not know how to be a leader over his own family, he will not be able to take care of God’s church.)
6 But an elder must not be a new believer. A new believer might be too proud of himself. Then he would be judged guilty for his pride just as the devil was.
7 An elder must also have the respect of people who are not in the church. Then he will not be criticized by others and caught in the devil’s trap.
8 In the same way, deacons must be men that people can respect. They must not say things they do not mean. They must not use their time drinking too much wine, and they must not be men who are always trying to get rich by cheating others.
9 They must follow the faith that God made known to us and always do what they know is right.
10 You should test those men first. If you find nothing wrong in them, then they can serve as deacons.
11 In the same way, the women must have the respect of other people. They must not be women who repeat evil gossip about other people. They must have self-control and be women who can be trusted in everything.