3 He must not get drunk. He must not push people around. He must be gentle. He must not be a person who likes to argue. He must not love money.
4 He must manage his own family well. He must make sure that his children obey him and show him proper respect.
5 Suppose someone doesn't know how to manage his own family. Then how can he take care of God's church?
6 The leader must not be a new believer. If he is, he might become proud. Then he would be judged just like the devil.
7 The leader must also be respected by those who are outside the church. Then he will not be put to shame. He will not fall into the devil's trap.
8 Deacons also must be worthy of respect. They must be honest and true. They must not drink too much wine. They must not try to get money by cheating people.
9 They must hold on to the deep truths of the faith. Even their own minds tell them to do that.