18 Now some are puffed up, as though I were not coming to you.
19 But I will come to you soon, if the Lord is willing; and I will find out not the talk of those who are puffed up, but their power.
20 For the kingdom of God does not consist of talk but of power.
21 What do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?