11 Don’t consult with a womanabout her rival,or with the cowardly about war;or with a merchant about business,or with a buyer about a sale;or with a slanderer about gratitude,or with the unmerciful about kindness;or with the idle about anythinginvolving work,or with an annual laborer aboutfinishing a job;or with a lazy household slaveabout a large task.Don’t look to these personsfor any advice.